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A Lost Loved One’s Possessions

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Use this list of helpful tips guide to help divide property. After all, arranging a funeral at a funeral home isn’t the only thing there is to do when someone passes away.

The bereaved are responsible for coming up with a plan for the deceased’s possessions beyond planning a funeral or service at a funeral home in Chicago, ILafter the death of a loved one. Organizing, going through and dividing possessions is very difficult. It can be made easier when there is a clear will or an executor, but a lot of times there isn’t, and the family is left to do it all on their own. This can lead to a lot of tension. 


 


Despite what many people may think, it isn’t the most valuable items that cause the most problems. It’s usually the smaller, more sentimental items that can lead to arguments and pain. These tips can help you divide your loved one’s possessions with as little pain and tension as possible.   


 

  • Don’t Leave Anyone Out – Try to think of anyone that would appreciate a piece of the deceased’s life and memory. From aunts and uncles to long lost cousins, caregivers, friends and neighbors, you’d be surprised at who would greatly appreciate a token to remember the deceased by. 

 


 

  • Think Before You Donate – While donating unwanted items is generous and helpful, be careful not to donate too quickly. Really take your time and think about each item. While it might not be wanted now, it might end up being very important down the line. 

 


 

  • Use Stickers – Give each family member stickers of a certain color and have them place stickers on items they want. Items with only one sticker can go to that person, but items with more than one sticker will have to be divided another way, like taking turns. 

 


 

  • Get Appraisals – Some items might have significant monetary value, such as coins, jewelry, antiques and other valuable things. Take the guesswork out and get a professional appraiser to determine the exact value of every item. Once the values are established, divide everything as evenly as possible making sure each person ends up with about the same monetary value amount. If there are items that no one wants, sell them and divide the proceeds. 

 


 

  • Take Turns – Take turns picking items and draw straws or use another method to determine the order. Think of it like a sports draft. It’s a fair way to make sure everyone gets a chance to choose something meaningful to them. It’s also an interesting and sort of special way to see which items mean the most to which people. You might have never known how much your sister valued Grandma’s cookie jar otherwise. 

 


 

  • Make Copies – There are some items that can be shared thanks to modern technology. Make digital copies of old family photos, movies, and tapes and then distribute the files so everyone has their own copy. Digitizing these old memories is a good idea beyond dividing them evenly as it protects them for future generations to enjoy. 

 


 


Cage Memorial Chapel Funeral & Cremation Services, Inc. is here for you if you want more help or information about Chicago, IL funeral home services or other death related tips. After all, at the end of the day, it’s important to remember that this is your family, and everyone is hurting after the loss. Try to act with empathy and come to compromises whenever possible.

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